Really interesting thank you for putting a phrase to this! I also anecdotally notice that it's a feminine vs masculine trait (including LGBTQIA+). My more feminine identifying friends (myself included) all cooperatively overlap and that's who I'm mostly friends with and grew up with. I don't have masculine friends outside of romantic relationships and family. When it comes to the masc men in my life (my partner and dad) I always have to adjust this and stop talking to avoid conflict for most of the conversation and try to find pauses to even get a word in. Masculine tends to want to dominate a conversation and doesn't understand the cooperation. Just a thought!